I really need help with this, mega gf problems :(?

its obvious that she's scared. i think you just need to give her some time right now before getting physical. maybe it's freaking her out knowing they were let out. i'm sure she won't be like this forever but the thing is this is her own inner-battle/fear so as long as you keep reminding her that you are there for her and that everything will be okay it will be fine. she may just need the comfort of being held or something instead of getting physical right now. give it time, is a traumatic event, obviously, so if she's shaken up but she's gotten past it, then i'm sure she'll come around. when she starts to pull away when you're getting physical or if she starts and gets freaked out just tell her we don't have to do anything if you're no comfortable. give her the control with the physical aspect right now so that she doesn't get that feeling like she had when that happened to her. good luck to the both of you.