Relationship advice, please help.?

Your situation which use to be two people who use to operate as a couple, now operate as singles. Both of you continue to grow as separate people, new friends, new life experiences, etc. Can the relationship survive? That is the question. In your current situation, I think you would be the one hurt by not allowing yourself to enjoy new friendships, as in Bob. You could sit at home, communicating with SO, waiting, waiting, wondering, denying yourself new friendships, keeping those memories of the way things use to be. In reality, his life is so full of changes, life experiences, etc that his life is in total change mode. What the two of you had will never be the same because you both are changing. My advice, either you go to the same school so the two of you are together, facing these life experiences and changes together or you let go, see him when it works but he knows you see others. He may come home from school and the two of you may decide that you need to be together, with the two of you having the goal of getting though school together.